Happy Holidays!

From all of us at SpeedLA Dating we would like to wish you and yours Happy Holidays and a cheeky New Year!

Love,

Anoush x

Happy Hi Tech Holidays

In case you've been living under a rock lately, and haven't noticed the Christmas commercials on your cable, the Christmas music at the mall and the Christmas everything else everywhere else, the holidays are definitely in season.

But, whether you're feeling like Scrooge, or excited like an elf, you know the holidays can only mean one thing -- it's time to shop. And, when you've got a significant other to shop for, the buying gifts gets more stressful than Santa's workshop on December 24. But, never fear. No matter who you've got staring back at you under the mistletoe, there's a gadget you can give them that will light 'em up like a Christmas tree. Even if your significant other is more chic than geek.

For the stylish significant other, Etsy has a wide array of gorgeous custom gadget accessories. From hand-carved iPhone cases to jewelery made out of microchips, it's your one-site shop for all things handcrafted and homemade. If your beau is more of a bedazzled type, there's always the Swarovski Heart Ware collection - a pretty pun of a USB drive cleverly disguised as a glamorous heart-shaped crystal.

If your significant other is more geek than chic, there's always the old standby of ThinkGeek, which boasts brilliant gift ideas like a light-saber umbrella and the world's fanciest wind-up razor. Seriously, it's a wind-up razor. There's also a wide variety of watches that do everything from secretly videotaping people to playing full-color videos. Of course, if you really want to make the geek in your life feel special, you can always get the ultimate geek gift - a monogrammed USB drive. Gorgeous, silver plated, personal and totally nerd-a-licious - nothing says love like a 4GB slice of security - for your computer files at least.

Got a lover who loves the gym? If you really want to splurge on that special gym rat in your life, there's always the Nike + iPod Sport Kit. This super-sleek duo is the brain child of the good folks at Apple and Nike, and it's basically a fancy pedometer that also happens to be a music player that also happens to hook up with your shoes, so that everything works together while you run. If that's one too many features for your favorite fitness fiend, check out the Garmin Forerunner, which combines a GPS and pedometer into one sleek, simple interface that you wear on your wrist while running. Sure, it's a little pricey, but aren't your lover's glutes totally worth it?

Written by: Mollie Vandor - SpeedLA Dating Resident Blogger

Tis the Season...

Whether you celebrate Christmas, Kwanzaa, Channukah or Festivus, it's hard to deny that the holidays are here -- as much as the 70+ degree weather might have you thinking otherwise. From the themed commercials to the endless loop of lunacy-inducing carols already playing everywhere from the market to the mall, it seems like everybody's getting into the holiday spirit. And, as much as you bah humbug, you have to admit, it's kind of infectious. Then again, isn't everything, in this swine flu season?

But don't worry. Even though we're in sunny southern California, there are plenty of options for those of us who just can't shake the urge to indulge in a little seasonal something or other, and the good news is that you can definitely drag your significant other along and make it a date.

If lights are your thing, check out the annual DWP Holiday Light Festival in Griffith Park - which goes on all month. This display of festive sculptures made out of the ubiquitous strands of electric-bill-killing Christmas lights, will put that puny little light display on your roof to shame. Of course, it's always nice to take a stroll through all that seasonal spirit - and to see that the extra bucks on your post-holiday electric bill really are going to a good cause - or at least a bright one. For more info, check out http://www.dwplightfestival.com/. For more light love, check out Candy Cane Lane on the corner of Lubao and Oxnard Street in Woodland Hills, where sweet suburbia gets a jolt of holiday cheer in the form of some serious neighborhood-wide hall decking. And, get your highfalutin' holiday cheer fix driving through the tony Hollywood suburb of Hancock Park, where everyone from the Mayor to the Cunninghams (yes, of Happy Days fame) have been known to spread the Santa-lovin' cheer with jolly light displays and those creepy animatronic lawn reindeer.

If you're craving a Christmas that's more white than light, I've got bad news for you -- it ain't gonna happen. Yes, it did snow in Malibu in 2007, but unfortunately it all melted before you could get through the chorus of a Bing Crosby carol. So, if snow is what you're craving, the closest you're going to come around here is an ice skating rink. The good news is that the LA area has plenty of those. LA Live's got a rink going all December downtown (http://www.lalive.com/content.php?section=promos&page=holidayice), and the regular rink at Pershing Square (http://www.laparks.org/pershingsquare/doi.html) is open for its twelfth season this year courtesy of LA Parks. There's also outdoor skating in Santa Monica (http://www.downtownsm.com/about/winterlit.html), outdoor skating in Woodland Hills (http://www.woodlandhillsice.com/) and a classic indoor rink in Culver City (http://www.culvericearena.com/). With skates and admission averaging around $12 per person, you'll have plenty left over for the inevitable bandages and bruise creams.

Written by: Mollie Vandor - SpeedLA Dating Resident Blogger

A Night For Suzanne...

November 30th 2009, is a very special night dedicated to all those who have been affected by or lost someone close to Cancer. Suzanne was the epitome of all we at SpeedLA strive to be; a true class act, always graceful and always cheeky! A victim of Lung Cancer in 2003, this is a night to celebrate her life and all those that were taken far too soon.

A night for love and a night to give back. For those that have their own Cancer charity of choice, simply make a donation to your charity, e-mail Anoush, let her know you did and you are all set. SpeedLA is donating our hosts, our make-up artists, the venue, the appetizers and of course, our Marley prize so that 100% of your donation goes straight to Joan Gaeta Lung Cancer Foundation. Simply put Joan Gaeta Lung Cancer Foundation in the memo line of your purchase for a lovely tax deduction to boot.

You can donate by purchasing your tickets here or by going straight to http://jglcf.org/give.aspx. If you choose to donate directly, e-mail us with confirmation and you are on our Guest List. To read more about the Joan Gaeta Lung Cancer Foundationyou can visit http://jglcf.org/home.aspx

Same great fun, same charming hosts, same gorgeous nibbles and same cheeky-fun!

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SpeedLA Dating - 'A Night For Suzanne - Charity Event

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Sweet Love Hangover @ Playhouse

Fabulously flirty ... seductively romantic... playfully chic. This is what has come to define the undefinable, Playhouse. Set within this fantasyland of fun and wonderment, is the ground floor - Sweet Love Hangover.

With a wink to pop culture and a nod to the classics, Sweet Love Hangover is one part play, 2 parts cheeky with a twist of curiousity.

Mingle with SpeedLA Dating at Sweet Love Hangover and come back to Playhouse - with our compliments. Along with our usual Signature Perks, each dater will receive their own exclusive pass for Playhouse.

Sip on Sweet Love Hangover's dreamy Martini's while you take in the intoxicating moment. Chat up our personable British hosts while you mingle, mix and match - UK Style. Find your playful side in one of LA's hottest spots - All the exclusivity minus the attitude - Sweet Love Hangover @ Playhouse Hollywood.

"The buzz on Playhouse has been building for years, with longtime L.A. club stalwart Elie Samaha and his Muse Lifestyle Group" Metromix.com

"Smack dab in the middle of Hollywood’s burgeoning nightlife scene. The nearly 13,000-square foot nightclub (designed by the same design firm behind STK and Villa, Manhattan-based Icrave), aims to dazzle." Los Angeles Times 2009

"I also tried some other companies, though I preferred Anoush and SpeedLA (call it first timer’s loyalty, the cute accents, I don’t know)" LA2DAY

"SpeedLA Dating is the hippest way to meet quality singles." LA Talk Radio.com

SpeedLA Dating @ Sweet Love Hangover at Playhouse - December 2nd 2009

Ask Anoush! All Things Dating Advice

Ask Anoush! Have a dating question? Need help navigating the dating world? Simply e-mail Anoush atanoush@speedladating.com with your question and she'll answer it right here.

• Jocelyn – Redondo Beach
  Lately, when I go on dates they never get past the 3rd date. The first and second dates seem like their going well but for whatever reason, they fizzle out. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Any advice?

Hi Jocelyn,
Thank you for your question; it is not an easy one as everyone’s situation is different. The one thread that is true for all of us is that the first date is very much a ‘honeymoon’ date. We rarely tread too deep and it’s easy to feel ‘drunk’ in the moment of someone new showing interest in us. The second date is really the true test. It’s the second visit to that house you might want to buy, the second test drive on that new car and the second dinner with that guy you think you remember liking from a couple of weeks ago. If you do not feel a ‘click’ of any kind, chances are he doesn’t either, or worse he does and senses that you don’t! It’s very important that we put as much effort into that second date as we did the first and don’t assume he will do all the running. Men stress so much about securing that first date, that after the second he may feel it’s time you chased a bit.

• Stephanie – Long Beach
  I work with guy I really like. I know that dating someone you work with is almost an oxymoron, but I don’t know what to do. I feel like if we both approached it like adults, it could work and if itdidn’t, we could still be co-workers. Am I dreaming?

Hi Stephanie,
Thank you for your great question, you are not the first to ask and I am sure you won’t be the last!
Indeed this can be approached like ‘adults’ as you say, but invariably, the problems do not lay in the approach but rather in the outcome. You do not mention if there are any seniority issues, this will inevitably lead to problems. If one of you answers to the other in the workplace I would most certainly say leave well alone. However, if you are on the same level and your workplace is not an overly-serious one, then there is hope. Let’s face it, most of us spend more time at work then we do anywhere else. We see our co-workers more than our friends and family. This doesn’t necessarily mean though that you know someone all that well; remember if he is like most of us at work, you are seeing his best side in that 8-10 hour window. Another reason for concern is that you must think about what your job means to you, if say, things don’t work out. Will you be able to face him every day? Or what if you have a fight the previous night; can you behave cordially at work the next day for the sake of your co-workers?
This is an age-old question for a darn good reason. There are many options to weigh and each situation is unique to the individuals. If you can answer the above questions and feel that you can do this with no regrets, why not give it a go? Please tread carefully Stephanie and do weigh all of the possible outcome scenarios first. If things don’t work out, SpeedLA Dating is always here for you.

• Lori – Hollywood Hills
  I’ve been dating this great guy for about 4 months now. Everything is going good but I have yet to meet any of his family or friends. Every time I ask I feel like I’m pestering him. He’s been telling me next week – next week for more weeks than I can count. Is he embarrassed of me or hiding something of his own?

Hi Lori,
Thanks for your great question, this is an interesting one. First of all, I would like to know a bit more about how much you actually do know about the family of this great guy. Is it a case of, you have seen pictures, you know their names and his general feelings towards them, you just haven’t met them yet? Or…is it that you have been to his apartment several times, there are no signs of any family pictures, he clams up like a frightened crab at the very mention of family and his speed dial and email inbox are completely empty?! If we are talking about the latter, then there might be some serious red flags here. He could have some commitment issues, or he may be hiding something from you. Of course, there are those that have had problematic upbringings and a complicated family. They just don’t want to talk about family until they are ready. This can be a sign of tremendous baggage and depending on your needs and how much of a shoulder you are willing to be, this could be a road you may not want to go down.
If, on the other hand, we are talking about my former suggestion, then I really feel that there is no need for alarm, not at this stage. Plenty of us love our family…but like them at arm’s length. We have their pictures up, enjoy once a month phone calls and getting together with them is a special occasion akin to Leap Years'.
It’s only been 4 months – if things stay the same after the first year, then I would start to be concerned.

Flirting With Danger

As any girl who has lusted after R-Pats knows, there's something kind of sexy about something that's kind of scary. Which is why there's no better time to take your significant other on a themed date. After all, there are few things that will bring you closer faster than sheer terror -- except of course sharing your Halloween candy stash.

If the typical Halloween hullaballoo seems as passe as finding popcorn balls in your trick or treating haul, then maybe it's time to try a different day of the dead - literally. Dia De Los Muertos is the traditional Mexican celebration of the Halloween season, and it also happens to be a great excuse for a festival on October 24 at Hollywood Forever Cemetery. For just $10 admission, you get to enjoy arts and crafts, music and dance and plenty of treats. The tricks you'll have to provide for yourself. But hey, it's Hollywood. I'm sure you can figure something out. In the meantime, check out http://www.ladayofthedead.com/event_info.html for more info.

For a little history with your Halloween, you can always take your date on one of the countless classic Hollywood tours that crop up like candy corn in your trick or treat tote this time of year. Hollywood Forever Cemetery takes you straight to the scary source, with graveyard tours ranging from a Jewish history themed stroll to the aptly named "Cemetery of The Stars" Tour, which takes you to the tombstones of luminaries like Valentino and Vampira.

Full info is available here: http://www.cemeterytour.com/. If the cemetery isn't exactly your ideal seduction scene, how about the classic back of the car situation? That's what you get when you book a Haunted Hollywood Tour, which takes you to the Tate House, Marilyn Monroe's haunted mirror, the Manson Massacre site and the OJ Simpson murder scene. Because nothing says sexy quite like 'if the glove doesn't fit...' Check out the full scary scoop at http://www.hauntedhollywoodtours.com/.

If the whole haunted house thing is too tame for your trick or treat tête-à-tête, take a walk on the wild side -- or at least a trip back in time -- and check out horror classic "Halloween" at the Hollywood Forever Cemetery on the day itself, courtesy of Cinespia (http://www.cinespia.org/calendar/). With DJs spinning before and after the screening, the scariest thing might be the fear of losing your date to that hipster hottie hanging out by the mausoleum.

Written by: Mollie Vandor - SpeedLA Dating Resident Blogger

What a Gem?

Having lunch in Beverly Hills everyday can certainly become costly on the wallet, but what is a working girl supposed to do? Enter Pizza Rustica. This has to be one of the most authentic pizza places I have tried since living in Los Angeles. For those of us that love those east coast customs, it's nothing to call up and order a slice, salad and soda, all delivered locally within minutes! Fresh, fast and not expensive.

If you fancy dining in or having something more than a slice, Pizza Rusitca has a fantastic menu filled with delicious pastas, wonderful salads and amazing sandwiches. For the ultimate chocolate fantasy, indulge in a slice of Pizza Chocolate - thin pizza filled with european chocolate - so good!

I highly recommend the Caprese pizza or the angel hair pasta with chicken - and you won't go wrong with any of the salads.

Situated in the heart of Beverly Hills on Santa Monica and Rodeo, you will find yourself surprised by the authenticity and even more so by the prices. A must visit for that first casual lunch date or a welcome break between shopping with that new special someone.

Pizza Rustica - West Hollywood & Beverly Hills

Written by: SpeedLA Dating

Ask Anoush! All Things Dating Advice

Ask Anoush! Have a dating question? Need help navigating the dating world? Simply e-mail Anoush atanoush@speedladating.com with your question and she'll answer it right here.

• Molly – Santa Monica
  I’ve been seeing someone now for about 4 months. When will I know if he is the one or not?

Hi Molly,
Thank you for your question; it is a great and frequent one. I always say that there is no science to knowing when that someone becomes simply that ‘one’. People get caught up in the timing and the exact feeling. The bottom line is, when you know, you know and it shouldn’t take too long. To be honest Molly, if you’re not feeling it after 4 months, I doubt you will after 5 or 6.

• Robyn – Atwater Village
  I’ve been dating a guy for 2 months and I really like him. How do I test the waters with the talk of marriage?

Hi Robyn,
Thank you for your question; it is one I have heard quite often since moving to LA. I personally am against all talks of marriage within the first year of dating someone. The only exception would be if it were something you both obviously wanted to do and mutually discussed in unison. Otherwise, if the subject is weighing on your mind and has not been mentioned, chances are it’s not weighing on his mind. Why do you feel the need to discuss this after 2 months? I think you might be focusing prematurely on the thought of ‘marriage’ and losing sight of figuring out whether you really like the relationship you are in. If you do and everything moves along well, the rest will follow naturally.

• Jack W. Marina Del Rey
  How long do I wait before I call a woman back after a first date?

Hi Jack,
This is a love-hate question for me. I love it because it takes us all back to the playground and I hate it because I thoroughly oppose all game-playing! The simple answer is, call when you feel you want to call. Don’t over analyze what she might think. Women like attention, we like that you built up the courage to call and acted like it was nothing. Let her smile to herself and wait a few hours before she calls you back, she feels in control and you’ve made her smile without realizing it. Don’t wait!

Ask Anoush - anoush@speedladating.com

Close Encounter of the Romantic Kind...

Looking to for a truly out-of-this-world spot to share a drink and take in the sights? I offer you, Encounter @ LAX. The futuristic experience begins the minute the doors open into the funky purple-and-chrome elevator. Patrons are transported upward into the saucer-shaped bar and restaurant. Huge lava lamps and amoeba-shaped banquettes are set against a 360-degree view of airport runways and beyond.

Perched 70 feet over the runways at LAX, it provides the perfect spot to plan your next getaway and wonder what fabulous locale the next plane is from or flying off to. Happy hour runs 4pm to 7pm, Sunday through Thursday. Enjoy half-price beer, signature martinis and award-winning "California Fresh" cuisine prepared under the direction of Chef, Michel Audeon.

For those seeking stars of their own I recommend, 'The Electric Barbarella' a souped-up kamikaze, made from Absolut, triple sec, peach schnapps, OJ and lime. Although set in the center of LAX, the restaurant is surprisingly easy to get in and out of with a very reasonable valet charge of $6.

Encounter at LAX

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A Cheeky Chic Friday!

It's our Friday Night Delights! The hottest spots in Hollywood open their doors to SpeedLA Dating for a night of cheeky fun - UK Style!

Known for his innovative and unique style, successful restaurateur and nightlife guru Mike Viscuso has created The Kress as the next Hollywood landmark. A basement level lounge offering live entertainment and dance floor; a third level banquet and event center offering food and service, live entertainment and dance floor; and finally a spectacular design-driven rooftop lounge with cabanas and a 360 degree view of Los Angeles including the legendary Hollywood sign. Join SpeedLA Dating and the fabulously fabulous, Kress Hollywood for a night of mingling and matching - Like only SpeedLA does.

The Kress Hollywood

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Love and Romance...LA Style!

Sensing love on the horizon... Well, no need to look farther than the horizon from the breaktaking Surf & Sand Resort in Laguna Beach. In a relationship or tying to turn a lovely time into a relationship, then it might be time to seal the deal with a weekend away. Set the navigation for the sea and watch your 'Impress' factor soar off the charts as you pull into the Surf & Sand. Stroll in the wonderfully chic lobby and ask for the Corner Rooms in the Original Building or if you have the means, The Penthouse Corner. This building literally hangs over the water with the surf crashing below. Reserve ahead for spectacular deals on this slice of heaven or try your luck same day when the resort is out of season. Rated by Travel & Leisure as one of the World's Best Hotels - this gem is sure to set any relationship on the right course. Luxurious amenities, a private balcony and a view that never ends... is the Surf & Sand Resort.

For that special night in on the balcony a phone call to room service is the perfect start. A lovely bit of bubbly, candles set to perfection and a menu that is sure to satisfy all cravings. While we usually suggest certain dishes, we can't begin to pick our favorites. From fresh sea food to meats you can slice with a butter knife, they are all dreamy and all fabulously fabulous. So go on.. Surf's up.

Surf and Sand Resort - Laguna Beach

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Lovely - Jubley Under the Stars...

Warm night? Check. Stars twinkling in the sky? Check. Scantily clad warm weather girl? All right, steady on. How about a casually chic hot spot in the valley with a patio out front that is sure to add romance to any date. I offer you, Cafe Bizou in Sherman Oaks. With an array of candles, perfectly set lights and the warm air abounding, it is the perfect date spot for that perfect date.

A California - French menu and full-bar allow for a cozy drink before dinner before heading outside and trying their specials. If you're extra lucky, you might be offered their out of this world Lobster Tail layered over Fettuccine. Divine and as with everything at CafeBizou, reasonably priced. Stretch the dollar a bit farther at this fine dining spot with casual dining prices. Other treats to impress the date with recommending are the Lobster Ravioli, the Chicken Breast done to perfection set over mash potatoes and the Steak Au Poivre - Ask for medium-rare like any good aristocrat.

Should you wish to name drop, ask for Ryan, their astute manager or Neal, their personable Chef-Owner who started it all.

Cafe Bizou - Sherman Oaks & Pasadena

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365 Days of Different

I just cut the cord on two years of on again off again romance with someone I can confidently say is the love of my life -- to date. There's no easy way to turn our compendium of a courtship into a long story short, but suffice it to say I walked away from a situation that we both knew wasn't working. And although I didn't shut the door completely, it's not looking like it's going to reopen right away either. To put it another way, I did delete his number from my phone, although I kept it written down on good old-fashioned paper.

In contemporary courtship terms, that last sentence probably said it all. But, of course, nothing can completely convey all the thoughts and emotions that go into making -- and dealing with -- the decision to cut communication with someone who is so central to your life. It's the kind of thing that seems so simple in theory, until you wake up the next day and start to realize that there are countless little ways in which the absence of that person from your life affects you. Especially today, when odds are you and the person you're dating are digitally connected almost 24/7, it's easy to feel like losing them is more than just about losing a lover, it's about losing that constant conversational companion, that communication, that connection. All of a sudden, your phone is silent, and you're alone.

That's when everything becomes an exercise in reevaluation. Now normally, I would try to stave this stage off by simply wallowing in so much misery that eventually I couldn't take it anymore. I would literally binge on the blues, until I was so sick of it, there was nothing left to do but get up and go back to my life. Between being sad and being better, there wasn't much room for reflection. But this time, the fourth or fifth time this particular passionate affair was put out to pasture, I decided to do things differently. So I sat down, and I started to think. What can I do that will force me to learn from this experience and grow enough to maybe manage not to have to do it again? After all, you'd think I would have learned after time two or three. Clearly, my wallowing technique wasn't working as a means of making sure I didn't repeat my mistakes. It was time to try something different.

And that's when it hit me. Trying something different. It's not something I usually do. As a rule, there are few things I dislike more than being in a situation where I'm not in control. And nothing wrests the control right out of your hands quite like a strange, new situation. So, obviously, I've spent most of my life trying to avoid all things awkward and unfamiliar. But, of course, as any regular viewer of romantic comedies knows, the heroine can never move past her propensity for failed flings until she forces herself to confront her demons and - surprisingly enough - try something new.

Take the movie "Julie & Julia," which I just saw. Julie Powell felt like her life lacked purpose. So she gave herself a challenge -- spend one year cooking your way through Julia Child's cookbook, blog about it and see what happens. It worked. They made a movie about her after all.

By now, you can probably guess where this is going. I too have decided to give myself a challenge. And I too am planning to blog about it. Do I think they'll make a movie about me? Probably not. But I do think that this exercise will force me to face some of my fears, and find out some new things about myself, the life I want to live, and the love I want in it.

After all, what better time is there to do something like this than now? I'm single in Hollywood in my twenties. It's not exactly Sex & The City (Carrie's shoes alone probably wouldn't fit in my apartment), but it is that time in my life. Why not force myself to do something different with it? So here it is.

The challenge: do something different every day for the next 365 days -- the countdown starts on August 10, 2009 and ends on August 10, 2010, at which point I will be a year older and hopefully, at least a few exciting experiences wiser.

The rules: The 'something different' can be as major as making myself try the Trapeze School at the Santa Monica Pier or as minor as finding a new food to try or a weird new website to hit. No matter what, it must be something I've never done before. I'll document the whole thing in full at http://www.ranker.com/list/365-days-of-different/mollie, and I'll also put excerpts of my experiences up here, especially when they involve ways to meet new matches or making myself do something that would also make a great date idea.

I'll definitely take suggestions about strange new things to try. So long as they don't leave any permanent marks or put my clumsy ass into serious physical danger, I'm down to try it. Or at least, I'm going to force myself to be. That's the whole point after all, isn't it?

Written by: Mollie Vandor - SpeedLA Dating Resident Blogger

Looking Good!

If you haven’t already been to Zappos.com, it’s definitely a go-to site to check out when searching for that perfect first date outfit. My top three reasons to love Zappos.com are as follows: their new home page, “Zeta”, their culture, and the site’s fantastic selection of items and search/filtering system.

Home Page

“Zeta” kicks the old homepage’s butt! Instead of the old home page focus on shoes, Zeta organizes items into categories delineated by pictures and links to subcategories (ie. “Women’s Clothing” links to tops, shorts, skirts, etc.). Zeta also features a “View All Departments” click-down menu in the top left corner, as well as an alphabetical brand index across the top of the page.

The bottom of the page features “What’s New” and “Top Sellers” categories sorted by Men’s, Women’s, and Kids’, as well as a “Find What You Need Quickly” section sorted by gender, special interest, and specialty site.

The homepage also publicizes some of Zappos’ uber cool policies, such as free shipping, free returns, and free return shipping, 24/7 customer service, weekly free clothing give-aways, and Zappos’ safe shopping guarantee.

Culture

Zappos is renowned in business circles for the entrepreneurial values which led to its tremendous growth and success. Zappos’ core values include, “deliver WOW through service”, “embrace and drive change”, and “create fun and a little weirdness”, and it succeeds at all three.

The site is personal, fun, and creative, with blogs on topics ranging from snacks to movies to exercise, videos, such as “How Big is Pat’s Noggin?”, and videos of real people sharing their Zappos stories. Additional features include twitter links, community involvement projects, customer testimonials, and pictures of “furry customers” and “customers-in-training”.

Women’s Clothing

Zappos has a ridiculously specific search system. When searching for Women’s Clothing, one can narrow down by item type, popular items, or a quick search feature which searches items by style, size, width, and color. Additional means of narrowing down include searching clothing category, specialty size, brand, new and sale items, and recommended items.

If you’re looking for a perfect first-date dress, click “Dresses”, and prepare to be amazed! You can narrow your choices by dress type (A-line, empire, high waist dresses, etc.), size, color, brand, and price. Below this feature, 20 pages of dresses are shown, and may be sorted by newest, most popular, name, low price, and high price.

Once you find the dress of your dreams, Zappos provides product information, complete with a glossary of terms, as well as “Add to Favorites”, “Share This Product”, and “Tell a Friend” features. Reviews are enabled, and brand information is included. Customers may even opt to be notified by email when new styles of the brand are added to the site. Zappos also offers free overnight shipping on clothing.

Zappos.com

Written by: Lauren Blackwell - SpeedUSA Group Resident Blogger

A Lovely Guide for the LA Dater in you...

Hot off the press is the 2009 Zagat Los Angeles Dating (and Dumping) Guide. A pocket size guide with loads of goodies for the LA Dater. With chapters ranging from Where to Date, Where to Break Up, Nightlife, Sweet and Not So Sweet Stories of love or that never ending quest to find love. With Zagat you can expect the most up to date reviews on the latest, hottest spots and with this guide you can have a laugh and gain some good tips while you are at. A couple of excerpts I quite enjoyed are in the 'Jesus Get Me Out of Here' Stories;

"In the middle of an intimate moment, my so-called boyfriend said 'I don't think I can do this anymore because I'm engaged.' "

"He told me that his fetish was amputees and if something were to happen to me I would be right up there at the top of his list."

"I thought he was going to take me out for dinner, but he explained that he doesn't like to eat and only eats to survive, so we weren't going out to eat."

"We were fooling around. I went to use his bathroom, and when I came back he was at his computer checking out online dates."

You can find the Zagat Los Angeles Dating Guide at most book stores or athttp://www.zagat.com/shop/product_detail.asp?VID=0&preload=60009&prodid=731

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A Weekend Away...Without Breaking the Bank

Alright Lads... Looking to get away with your love for the weekend? Something in town that is chic, fun and reasonable? Look no further than the Westin Bonaventure Downtown. I'm sure you have either driven by, seen pictures or watched the hundreds of movies the Bonaventure has been featured in. The Bonaventure continues to stand the test of time and does so beautifully. Being a Westin resort you're guaranteed superior service, their Signature Heavenly Bed and Heavenly Bath and a spectacular view of downtown from every room. With 24 hour room service, 42 restaurants and shops on property and state-of-the-art Westin Workout Gym, you need never leave the resort.

Now here is where the good gets better...

The Westin Bonaventure is primarily a business hotel which is incredibly convenient for a number of reasons. First off, all rooms are well equipped for all things business. DSL, fax machine and mini-bar (sorry, I had to throw that one in) are a Westin given. Secondly, prices drop drastically on the weekend. What can be a $300 dollar room during the week can be had for half that come Saturday and Sunday. Considering the price drop, do you and your love a favor and upgrade to their Tower Suite Rooms which include a seperate room, vanity and a lovely bit of extra space. All rooms have floor to ceiling windows, but the Tower Suite Rooms highlight the view best. Typically, expect to pay about $40 to $50 dollars a night over the standard room charge on the weekend, but I think you will find it well worth it when your love gushes about how you spoil her.

Lovely shops, 24 hour room service, luxury amenities and a bed that overlooks downtown? How can you say no?

Westin Bonaventure - Downtown Los Angeles

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SpeedLA Dating Heads to The Big Apple!

SpeedLA is proud to present we are expanding to New York City! I offer you, SpeedNY Dating. Same great value, same level of service and same cheeky fun. Hiring has begun for personable enigmatic British hosts, New York City Resident Bloggers and the search is on for the very best and hottest spots in NY. After opening in San Diego, Santa Barbara and our latest expansion, Seattle, we are tickled pink to be spreading our UK fun to 'The Big Apple'.

Set to debut July 1st 2009 - http://www.speednydating.com/

Many of our clients travel often to and from New York and I look forward to any advice, New York dating tips or just to say 'Cheers'!

Always available for my daters, call on me anytime.

Love,

Anoush x

We Love LA!

The Los Angeles Lakers are the 2009 NBA Champions! Hundreds of cheeky daters took advantage of our Lakers promotion offering a Free Event if the Lakers won it all. And won it all they have.

We are super excited and grateful to be such a huge part of LA. We look forward to seeing our promotion winners and for those that missed your chance for a Free SpeedLA Dating event, I am proud to announce our Lakers Championship Summer. Purchase a ticket between now and August 31st 2009, and receive $7 off your ticket price. Enter KOBEMVP for your discount.

Cheers to the Los Angeles Lakers and we can't wait to do it all again next year!

Love,

Anoush x

Ask Anoush! All Things Dating Advice Column

Ask Anoush! Have a dating question? Need help navigating the dating world? Simply e-mail Anoush at anoush@speedladating.com with your question and she'll answer it right here.

• Cindy , Thousand Oaks
  I’ve been seeing someone for close to 9 months now and I want to do something special (not too special) for his birthday. I thought of somewhere not too far, for a 3 day weekend. Where do I go?

Hi Cindy, thank you for your question – love the small trips out of town, so much fun! Considering where you are, it will be no surprise to you that I am thinking Santa Barbara. One of my most favorite understated hotels in Santa Barbara is the Montecito Inn on Coast Village Road. It’s a beautiful boutique hotel with a wonderful restaurant and bar. They do run specials for reservations made Sunday through Thursday and it is quaint enough to not scream ‘too special’. Continental breakfast is complimentary with your reservation and all the rooms are extremely modern with HBO, DVD /CD players and high-speed internet access. Gourmet dining is available through room service. If the weather is bad by any bad stroke of luck – there are plenty of things to do within the hotel. The Montecito Inn boasts a state-of-the-art exercise room, massage therapy, heated pool, Jacuzzis and wonderful saunas. Lunch, dinner and beverage service is also available poolside. I think it’s a beautiful place to have a relaxing few days without going over the top. Take a drive up and see for yourself – Valet parking is complimentary too.

• Jackie, Reseda
  Alright, so I’ve been on three dates with this guy. I like him. Not gaga but I could get gaga. Anyway, I met his sister on the second date. No big thing just happened to be around. So on our third date, I see her again and she’s talking about her wedding. She then turns to me and says “Do you want to be my bridesmaid?” I actually started to laugh, until I realized she wasn’t kidding. I nearly passed out. Out of sheer embarrassment of the moment, I agreed! I can’t guarantee we’ll make it past date 5. What do I do?

Hi Jackie, Thank you for your question – this is a strange one! What an uncomfortable position for you to be in I must say. First things first, the only easy way to slide out of this one is to do away with the relationship. That way there are no hurt feelings – no boyfriend, no bridesmaid for sister of boyfriend right? We could write pages on why this girl has no one closer in her life or why she latched on to you (perhaps she really wants her brother to get married, now that she is making that commitment) and is forcing it a little bit) Who knows…like I said; pages! If you really feel that this relationship isn’t really going anywhere, then get out now. Why prolong something you are not that into and maybe you can slope off before the measuring tape comes out for the dresses! I would love to know how things turn out, stay in touch.

Brian, Toluca Lake
So I’ve got this girl I like. We’ve been pretty exclusive for about 5 months. This is going to sound stupid, but I hate her music. No really, I despise her music. I’m not picky on music, I like most music, but this isn’t music. It sounds like New Age – spiritual – lots of harps – type music. It’s really the only thing I don’t like about her. So Anoush – help me out!

Hi Brian, Thank you for your question, this is a delicate one! Music can be such an important part of our lives and bonding over certain songs with your other half can be quite meaningful and create lasting memories. You didn’t say if this is her exclusive music of choice or if like you, she is open to other styles. I suggest that you play certain songs to her and let her know that you really like them and see how she reacts. Perhaps she can listen to her music when you are out or doing something else and you can still then have your songs that you enjoy together. As a music lover myself, I find it very important to agree on this and I wish you the best of luck in bringing her around to your taste. On the same hand, you should make every attempt to try to like some of her choices; maybe you have not heard them all! Let me know how it goes.

• Jimmy, Los Angeles
  Where can I take out a girl in LA that will give me the most bang for my buck? As in, I have very few. Any ideas would be helpful.

Hi Jimmy, Thank you for your question, in these times it is not a rare one, so I thought it a great one to share. Contrary to popular opinion there are quite a few options for a fun time in LA that doesn’t pull too hard on the purse strings. For a daytime date I always love the idea of spending a few hours down at the Santa Monica pier. There is so much to do there and not expensive! The arcade is sure to bring out the kids in you and see each other in a more relaxed environment. If you are feeling a little romantic and want to get snuggly, grab a couple of tickets to ride the Ferris wheel. For a romantic and lovely evening out, there are a few great restaurants on Ventura in Studio City and Sherman Oaks where you can have a lovely meal without the usual LA prices. I personally love Il Tiramisu in Sherman Oaks. A romantic setting without being too intimate, Il Tiramisu offers a fantastic bar, superb authentic Italian food and very pleasant staff to boot! The food is divine and you can enjoy a great meal and a couple of drinks for around $65. Not the cheapest in town but definitely one of the best as far as value for money is concerned. Other honorable mentions are Café Bizou just up the street. Also if you are over on the Westside and fancy an inexpensive but delicious meal – check out Panini on Sunset in West Hollywood. They have the best pizza in LA!

Riding High...

Sometimes it's nice to turn down the pressure, forget the glamour (I said it!) and go on an old- fashioned simple date. I know just the place. They say the best things in life are free. Well this is almost free and undoubtedly the most fun to be had in all of Los Angeles under $10. Be it day or night, the view from the all new Pacific Wheel at Pacific Park on the Santa Monica Pier, is breathtaking. Dazzle her with the gorgeous west coast skyline at night, take in the ocean view by day or time it just right for that perfect sunset viewing.

The brand new state of the art Ferris wheel boasts an extraordinary 160,000 LED illuminating lights. This is particularly spectacular to see at night. The Ferris wheel cost $1.5 million dollars, sits 130 feet above the Pacific ocean and features 20 large gondolas to snuggle up in.

Gentleman, if you are ever stuck and don't know what to do, I highly recommend a jaunt over to Pacific Park on Santa Monica Pier. Get cozy in one of the gondolas and ride the wheel high above the ocean, into the stars. A perfect start... or finish, to any date.

http://www.pacpark.com/

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Mamma Mia from NY...

Few things are more wonderfully simple, yet fantastically romantic, as a lovely pizza and bottle of wine with the one you fancy. So the question begs, "Just where can you get New York pizza in LA?". Well, I think I have just the answer. I offer you, Mamma Mia Pizzeria.

New York style pizza that makes one want to dance their self silly through the streets of Italy. Perhaps that was a slight exaggeration, but I think you get the delicious point. With two locations, one on the Sunset Strip the other in Sherman Oaks, getting a taste of New York is just a stone's throw away. With the freshest ingredients, home made dough and more specialty pizza's than you can shake a stick at, it's no surprise to see Mamma Mia's packed at nearly any hour. Also, well worth a look are their pastas, salads and sandwiches. Personal favorites are the Chicken Picata with linguine in a white wine sauce, the Gnocci in delicious marinara and the Pannino Della Casa, their House Special Sandwich with Grilled Chicken, avocado and provolone cheese.

A frequent fan of their delivery, I do try to pop in every once in a while for a quick ello' to their Sunset locale, their staff always friendly and always eager. Not to miss is the coupon section on their website, filled with discounts for an added bonus. If you have an extra second, sign up for their Mamma Mia Pizzeria Club, for a slew of discounts and special offers. Also convenient is the ability to order on-line. Easy, affordable and bloody good.

One mustn't forget that perfect, yet affordable bottle of wine. Whereas the Opus One in your home cellar might be a bit over the top, I think you will find any selection of Bolla Wine, at $10 a bottle and available everywhere, a perfect companion to your New York moment.

Mamma Mia Pizzeria - Sunset Blvd / Sherman Oaks

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Ask Anoush! All Things Dating Advice Column

Ask Anoush! Have a dating question? Need help navigating the dating world? Simply e-mail Anoush at anoush@speedladating.com with your question and she'll answer it right here.

• Jessica, Burbank
  I live in Burbank and needed a great first date place. Someplace romantic, but not too romantic if you know what I mean.

Hi Jessica, Thank you for your lovely question. It didn’t take me any time at all to come up with an answer. I have the perfect go-to spot, not too romantic, not unromantic either. Your answer awaits you at Café Bizou. I can’t say enough good things about this oasis in the valley. By far the best California-French fare for miles around. If you want to lean gently towards the romantic side (and I did say gently, so don’t panic!) request to be seated on the patio. Otherwise, inside is great too. I just find if a night is going to go well, it’s always nicer to be outside under the heat lamps - if it goes terribly you’re that much closer to Valet! The food is simply excellent (for a heavenly dish order the lobster special) there is a fabulous full bar and extensive wine list. Perfect setting, not too much, not too little and great prices too. You will not go wrong, I’m guaranteeing this one!

• Steve, Northridge
  Hello Anoush! OK. Here’s my deal. My girl’s birthday is in 10 days. We’ve been seeing each other for about 2 months. I have absolutely no idea what to get her. I’m a bit tight on cash and I didn’t want to send the wrong message. Any help?

Hi Steve, Thanks for your question love, I’m sure you’re not alone in this common angst. I like to believe I am not alone in my love for Sephora. Before you panic at the thought of walking in and feeling completely lost - have no fear – www.sephora.com is here. Cue the orchestra! Sephora really has come to us from above! Ladies love it. Not only because there is everything under one roof that we could possibly ever want, but and this is where you come in, they have the most fantabulous , and affordable gifts. A couple of my personal favorites that Sephora.com has at the moment are the Marc Jacobs Daisy Deluxe Gift Set ($87 value only $65!) Not only does this box set include a bottle of Marc Jacobs perfume but also the matching body lotion and shower gel! You are not going to go wrong there and your lady will smell so divine. Another favorite of mine is the Nars Body Glow gift set, only $49, I would be tickled pink to receive this and would give you major points! Let me know what you decide upon and how it goes!

• Marcus, Pasadena
  I have a question. I’ve been dating this woman for 4 months. We both have been seeing other people during that time, but I really like her now and I want to take the relationship to another level. How do I do that? I’m afraid to put myself out there, only to lose what I have if I scare her off.

Hi Marcus, thank you for your question, this is an interesting situation. Without knowing too many details, I would suggest a slow start – no sudden movements! You are obviously already aware of the fear of scaring her off, so that is good. All too often, men are not intuitive to this and make direct movements or sudden demands. You both have been seeing other people so you both have an equal footing and say in how things go forward. I would start by securing more nights together, or day trips whichever your schedule allows for. Basically the message you want to get across to her is that she is number one on your list. You never know she may be feeling the same way and isn’t sure how to approach you. Once you have a few more great dates, maybe elevated in terms of where you go, small gifts for her, increased phone calls etc...Then I would advise that you arrange a special dinner date. On this special date, take it up a notch – nice restaurant, flowers when you pick her up, lay the romance on thick! If this night goes well and you feel it’s mutual, then you are in a good place to have ‘the conversation’. Maybe you’ll want to have the talk that night, maybe you’ll wait until a few days after…you’ll know. Let me know how things develop, I love updates!

Are you having a laugh?

Looking for that perfect spot to have a lovely bit of dinner and tickle your funny bone after? Look no further than The Improv - Hollywood. No washed up audience warm-up guys here! Improv is truly an institution for the professional comic. A place where the likes of Jay Leno, Jerry Seinfeld and Chris Rock try out their material on the very lucky audiences and do so on a regular basis. It's big-time acts without the big-time attitude of those Sunset Strip clubs. On any given night, a glance at the bar could find some of the hottest talent around. A lovely sight to see comics relaxing, prepping and mingling with guests. They consider the Improv their home and the patrons, their guests and treat you as such. Feel free to chat them up - ideally after you've offered them a drink.

A lovely advantage of The Improv is their dinner service. Typical American fare prepared surprisingly well. Dinner reservations also secures prime seating for the show after the meal. If you feel like having the piss taken out of you, a front row spot is sure to get all the teasing and ribbing you could ask for. If don't quite fancy being the brunt of any jokes, saddle up to the seats in the back and join in on the fun.

The Improv typically offers 3 shows a night. Try to secure the second show for the best of a talented crop. The showroom is classic, with the brick wall made famous by years of "Live at the Improv" tapings.

There is a Two Item minimum per guest in the showroom. Any combination of food or beverages satisfies the minimum as does Dinner.

I frequent the Improv often and it never fails to deliver laughs. I always opt for dinner and always politely decline the front tables in the showroom...no point in begging to be teased! Grab your date, slide past the bar, nod to the comics, have a nibble and get ready to laugh...hard.

The Improv - Hollywood

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