Ask Anoush! All Things Dating Advice

Ask Anoush! Have a dating question? Need help navigating the dating world? Simply e-mail Anoush atanoush@speedladating.com with your question and she'll answer it right here.

• Molly – Santa Monica
  I’ve been seeing someone now for about 4 months. When will I know if he is the one or not?

Hi Molly,
Thank you for your question; it is a great and frequent one. I always say that there is no science to knowing when that someone becomes simply that ‘one’. People get caught up in the timing and the exact feeling. The bottom line is, when you know, you know and it shouldn’t take too long. To be honest Molly, if you’re not feeling it after 4 months, I doubt you will after 5 or 6.

• Robyn – Atwater Village
  I’ve been dating a guy for 2 months and I really like him. How do I test the waters with the talk of marriage?

Hi Robyn,
Thank you for your question; it is one I have heard quite often since moving to LA. I personally am against all talks of marriage within the first year of dating someone. The only exception would be if it were something you both obviously wanted to do and mutually discussed in unison. Otherwise, if the subject is weighing on your mind and has not been mentioned, chances are it’s not weighing on his mind. Why do you feel the need to discuss this after 2 months? I think you might be focusing prematurely on the thought of ‘marriage’ and losing sight of figuring out whether you really like the relationship you are in. If you do and everything moves along well, the rest will follow naturally.

• Jack W. Marina Del Rey
  How long do I wait before I call a woman back after a first date?

Hi Jack,
This is a love-hate question for me. I love it because it takes us all back to the playground and I hate it because I thoroughly oppose all game-playing! The simple answer is, call when you feel you want to call. Don’t over analyze what she might think. Women like attention, we like that you built up the courage to call and acted like it was nothing. Let her smile to herself and wait a few hours before she calls you back, she feels in control and you’ve made her smile without realizing it. Don’t wait!

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Close Encounter of the Romantic Kind...

Looking to for a truly out-of-this-world spot to share a drink and take in the sights? I offer you, Encounter @ LAX. The futuristic experience begins the minute the doors open into the funky purple-and-chrome elevator. Patrons are transported upward into the saucer-shaped bar and restaurant. Huge lava lamps and amoeba-shaped banquettes are set against a 360-degree view of airport runways and beyond.

Perched 70 feet over the runways at LAX, it provides the perfect spot to plan your next getaway and wonder what fabulous locale the next plane is from or flying off to. Happy hour runs 4pm to 7pm, Sunday through Thursday. Enjoy half-price beer, signature martinis and award-winning "California Fresh" cuisine prepared under the direction of Chef, Michel Audeon.

For those seeking stars of their own I recommend, 'The Electric Barbarella' a souped-up kamikaze, made from Absolut, triple sec, peach schnapps, OJ and lime. Although set in the center of LAX, the restaurant is surprisingly easy to get in and out of with a very reasonable valet charge of $6.

Encounter at LAX

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A Cheeky Chic Friday!

It's our Friday Night Delights! The hottest spots in Hollywood open their doors to SpeedLA Dating for a night of cheeky fun - UK Style!

Known for his innovative and unique style, successful restaurateur and nightlife guru Mike Viscuso has created The Kress as the next Hollywood landmark. A basement level lounge offering live entertainment and dance floor; a third level banquet and event center offering food and service, live entertainment and dance floor; and finally a spectacular design-driven rooftop lounge with cabanas and a 360 degree view of Los Angeles including the legendary Hollywood sign. Join SpeedLA Dating and the fabulously fabulous, Kress Hollywood for a night of mingling and matching - Like only SpeedLA does.

The Kress Hollywood

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Love and Romance...LA Style!

Sensing love on the horizon... Well, no need to look farther than the horizon from the breaktaking Surf & Sand Resort in Laguna Beach. In a relationship or tying to turn a lovely time into a relationship, then it might be time to seal the deal with a weekend away. Set the navigation for the sea and watch your 'Impress' factor soar off the charts as you pull into the Surf & Sand. Stroll in the wonderfully chic lobby and ask for the Corner Rooms in the Original Building or if you have the means, The Penthouse Corner. This building literally hangs over the water with the surf crashing below. Reserve ahead for spectacular deals on this slice of heaven or try your luck same day when the resort is out of season. Rated by Travel & Leisure as one of the World's Best Hotels - this gem is sure to set any relationship on the right course. Luxurious amenities, a private balcony and a view that never ends... is the Surf & Sand Resort.

For that special night in on the balcony a phone call to room service is the perfect start. A lovely bit of bubbly, candles set to perfection and a menu that is sure to satisfy all cravings. While we usually suggest certain dishes, we can't begin to pick our favorites. From fresh sea food to meats you can slice with a butter knife, they are all dreamy and all fabulously fabulous. So go on.. Surf's up.

Surf and Sand Resort - Laguna Beach

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Lovely - Jubley Under the Stars...

Warm night? Check. Stars twinkling in the sky? Check. Scantily clad warm weather girl? All right, steady on. How about a casually chic hot spot in the valley with a patio out front that is sure to add romance to any date. I offer you, Cafe Bizou in Sherman Oaks. With an array of candles, perfectly set lights and the warm air abounding, it is the perfect date spot for that perfect date.

A California - French menu and full-bar allow for a cozy drink before dinner before heading outside and trying their specials. If you're extra lucky, you might be offered their out of this world Lobster Tail layered over Fettuccine. Divine and as with everything at CafeBizou, reasonably priced. Stretch the dollar a bit farther at this fine dining spot with casual dining prices. Other treats to impress the date with recommending are the Lobster Ravioli, the Chicken Breast done to perfection set over mash potatoes and the Steak Au Poivre - Ask for medium-rare like any good aristocrat.

Should you wish to name drop, ask for Ryan, their astute manager or Neal, their personable Chef-Owner who started it all.

Cafe Bizou - Sherman Oaks & Pasadena

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